New Book: Survive, Live or Thrive? by L. Lynn Gilliard This is a guide for those who feel that they may be stuck in a rut in one or more areas of their life, including: – pursuing your dreams – making good money – […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
A lot of women (myself included) believe that when you first meet a guy, playing hard to get is the right way to go. That may be true to a certain extent, but not to the point of indifference (not answering messages, acting as if […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
I am a strong believer in soul mates — mostly because I believe I have met one of mine. My definition of a soul mate is someone who you can experience the ultimate feeling of love with in life. A true partner.
There are people that you meet who you just instantly click with and develop a bond very quickly. Nothing can stop you from being together. This is why I say that when true (mutual) love calls, you can’t really stop it from happening. It’s going to happen, eventually.
So knowing this, there is no need to worry and fret about the various guys that may come into your life. If they are meant to be there, they will be. There will be a knowing that you can’t really explain with words. They’re going to end up in your life, in some capacity, no matter what.
People who force relationships to happen with people who they don’t have a real connection with usually end up very unhappy. Sooner or later it ends and they can’t understand what happened.
True love is easy going. It’s relaxed. It doesn’t hurt. It feels so good. There’s that KNOWING — you just know that everything is going to be fine with this person. It might happen with someone you would never picture yourself with, but you meet, you connect and you become inseparable.
So don’t feel bad when you meet a guy and it doesn’t work out. Brush him aside and keep experiencing life. Keep your focus on the type of guy you want in your life who is just for you — not just based on looks or superficial stuff, but that undeniable connection. You never know when you might attract someone who’s just right for you.
Love Lynn
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
As women we have visions of sugarplums dancing in our heads when it comes to what we want from a man. What do we want from a relationship? Everything! He has to be kind. He has to look good. He has to make you happy. […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
Have you ever met a new guy who you were interested in and got a feeling of déjà vu? He talks, walks, and has the same mannerisms or behaviors as another guy you’ve known before. He may even look like the guy you dated in […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
We are our souls. Our souls are the essence of who we REALLY are — not our physical bodies. So it doesn’t matter how tall, muscular and good looking a person is on the outside, if the soul is ugly he is ugly, period.
Do you know how you can tell what the true essence of a person is? By looking him squarely into his eyes.
I’m not talking about a brief glance. I’m talking about a long, deep soul searching gaze into the eyes.
When you open up and allow your intuition to talk to you, it will tell you all that you need to know about what’s going on with the person beyond the good looks and bright white smile.
I once had this happen on a first date. I met the guy at a bar. He seemed cool and polite at first, but when I looked him straight in the eyes I got an icy chill instantly. My intuition was screaming at me — RUN!!! And I did, no need to tell me twice!
Have you ever had this happen? Did you choose to listen or ignore your intuition about someone and how did it turn out?
Trust the Eyes, and Your Intuition
So the next time you are on a date with a guy, take a good look at his eyes to get the true story. The eyes will tell you if the person is shifty, mean, crazy, or maybe just a little troubled but yet a good person at heart. If he can’t even look you straight in the eye at all, that’s a problem.
Trust your intuition — her job is to keep you on the right path — and remember that the eyes are the gateway to the soul so use them to seem out answers about the guys that you’re dating.
Love Lynn
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
For a time, ever since my life transformation I’ve experienced a weird phenomenon with certain men. The guy approaches me. He’s extremely interested, has a nice conversation with me, but then leaves without asking me for my information to connect again. At first I think, […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
As young girls and young women we’re taught by our parents and the media that having a man is a part of being a complete woman. It happens both subconsciously and blatantly: – “one day you’ll grow up, get married and have a big wedding” […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
In my books and blogs I advise women to let men chase you, but some women don’t quite get it.
They’ve been taught that they have to go after the man that they want HARD and do whatever it takes to get him.
They believe that persistence is key to getting a man.
And that’s true, just not in the way that they think.
Persistence is key to getting the man that you want in your life but not by actually chasing him and trying to convince him that you’re the one.
This is the type of persistence needed when you want a healthy long lasting relationship:
1) Persistence in your thought life — envisioning the right man to enter your life and start chasing YOU
2) Persistence in your quest for self-improvement and self-love, so that when the right guy comes along you’ll be ready
3) Persistence in your commitment to say NO to the wrong guys, NO the wrong situations and NO to settling for less than the best for you in life
Get it now?
Once you make the definite decision that you want a special guy in your life, closing the deal starts in your mind and ends with making the right decisions, not for a man’s sake, for YOUR sake.
No chasing necessary!
Love Lynn
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
The fear of rejection isn’t a problem that only men deal with. Countless women also struggle with this fear. Men deal with rejection early on in the dating process while women deal with it later on. The fear usually kicks in right after a woman […]
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.
