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11 Things Someone Should Have Told You (For Women)

11 Things Someone Should Have Told You (For Women)

They say that hindsight is 20/20, meaning that if you could go back in time and change some of the decisions you’ve made in the past using the information you have today you probably would. But when you’re in the thick of a situation, things […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

In my books and blogs I advise women to let men chase you, but some women don’t quite get it. They’ve been taught that they have to go after the man that they want HARD and do whatever it takes to get him. They believe […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

A common question that many women have whether they are in a relationship or just dating is, why do men pull away?

At the beginning of the relationship or the first few dates, he seems so into you. He is going out of his way to make you happy and to please you.

But eventually, something changes…

Well there are a few reasons why men pull away and what you can do about it to protect your feelings and sanity:

1) Sex has happened, so you are no longer a conquest — he has conquered.
Do not have sex with a man until you have formed a REAL bond with him that goes far beyond physical attraction. That way, when sex does happen there’s still something that keeps the interest you have for each other alive.

2) He thinks that you are getting a little too attached, and he’s not sure if he wants to be your man.
Keep dating other guys since you’re not in a relationship. If he asks if you are dating other guys, tell him “Yes I am. Problem?” Watch how things start to change. (I discuss this in more detail in my dating guide Let Him Chase YOU).

3) Your low self-esteem and insecurity is bringing him down.
Energy is real. Guys can sense when you have low-self esteem and it brings a bad energy into your union that he wants to escape desperately. Have some confidence in yourself girl!

These are just a few reasons why men pull away. You might find yourself in one of them if you dig deep and tell the truth to yourself. Thankfully, the solutions are VERY simple, and they all start with you.

Love Lynn

 

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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The Love Letter by Lynn Gilliard

When I was down in the dumps, I was inspired to write a love letter from myself… to myself. It was an important gesture that I had to make, to finally come to the realization that I wasn’t showing love to my own self. Before […]