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5 Simple Things That Can Make Your Life Easier

5 Simple Things That Can Make Your Life Easier

Wouldn’t it be nice if life could just be easier? Even just a little bit easier? You wake up, shower, wash your face, commence to doing your thing whatever that may be, and things seem to work out in the best way possible throughout the […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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11 Things Someone Should Have Told You (For Women)

11 Things Someone Should Have Told You (For Women)

They say that hindsight is 20/20, meaning that if you could go back in time and change some of the decisions you’ve made in the past using the information you have today you probably would. But when you’re in the thick of a situation, things […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

In my books and blogs I advise women to let men chase you, but some women don’t quite get it.

They’ve been taught that they have to go after the man that they want HARD and do whatever it takes to get him.

They believe that persistence is key to getting a man.

And that’s true, just not in the way that they think.

Persistence is key to getting the man that you want in your life but not by actually chasing him and trying to convince him that you’re the one.

This is the type of persistence needed when you want a healthy long lasting relationship:

1) Persistence in your thought life — envisioning the right man to enter your life and start chasing YOU

2) Persistence in your quest for self-improvement and self-love, so that when the right guy comes along you’ll be ready

3) Persistence in your commitment to say NO to the wrong guys, NO the wrong situations and NO to settling for less than the best for you in life

Get it now?

Once you make the definite decision that you want a special guy in your life, closing the deal starts in your mind and ends with making the right decisions, not for a man’s sake, for YOUR sake.

No chasing necessary!

Love Lynn

 

 

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

A common question that many women have whether they are in a relationship or just dating is, why do men pull away? At the beginning of the relationship or the first few dates, he seems so into you. He is going out of his way […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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The Love Letter by Lynn Gilliard

When I was down in the dumps, I was inspired to write a love letter from myself… to myself. It was an important gesture that I had to make, to finally come to the realization that I wasn’t showing love to my own self. Before […]