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Examples of Women Chasing Men in Movies and TV

Examples of Women Chasing Men in Movies and TV

If you take a close look at modern media, particularly movies and TV shows, you can see where women have gotten the idea that women chasing men is a wise idea. While watching Meet Joe Black (1998) again I noticed that this dynamic was in […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.

Men Do Want to Know That You’re Interested

Men Do Want to Know That You’re Interested

A lot of women (myself included) believe that when you first meet a guy, playing hard to get is the right way to go. That may be true to a certain extent, but not to the point of indifference (not answering messages, acting as if […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.

The Guy Seems Interested But Doesn’t Ask for Your Number… What’s Up with That?

The Guy Seems Interested But Doesn’t Ask for Your Number… What’s Up with That?

For a time, ever since my life transformation I’ve experienced a weird phenomenon with certain men.

The guy approaches me. He’s extremely interested, has a nice conversation with me, but then leaves without asking me for my information to connect again.

At first I think, “well damn, did my breath stink or something?” LOL But of course I just shake it off.

I finally realized what was happening. It had nothing to do with my looks or what I said.

It had everything to do with the confidence and determined attitude I exuded when talking to these particular guys. I was not the type of woman they were looking for.

You see, each of these guys were slime balls. Players (or wannabes). They were fishing.

They looked at me from afar, liked what they saw, and thought they’d try their luck at running game on me for a potential one night stand.

But when they stepped into my energy they became uncomfortable. They realized that I wasn’t a pushover and I wouldn’t be scammed into their beds that night. So they moved onto easier prey.

In the past, my desperate, needy and eager to please energy would have led the no-good guy to pursue me all night long, right up until I landed in his bed! They love women like that — those women are easy to conquer.

So this is a really good thing. My energy is finally up to a place where the slimey guys can’t stay in my presence for long.

When you’re “vibrating” at a high level of positive energy and have high self esteem, bad guys just can’t tango with you. They can’t fool you. It’s a scientific fact. They will run scared with their tail between their legs.

On the other hand, this also leaves you in a place where decent, wonderful men (gems) can be drawn to you in a most magnificent and perfect way. They ARE up for the challenge. You just have to open up your energy to receive the right type of guy in your life and then LET HIM CHASE YOU!

Love Lynn

 

 

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.

Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

In my books and blogs I advise women to let men chase you, but some women don’t quite get it. They’ve been taught that they have to go after the man that they want HARD and do whatever it takes to get him. They believe […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.

Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

A common question that many women have whether they are in a relationship or just dating is, why do men pull away? At the beginning of the relationship or the first few dates, he seems so into you. He is going out of his way […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.

Let Him Chase YOU

Let Him Chase YOU

So many women of today have been brainwashed to think that they have to chase after men in order to have one.

But the truth is that when you chase after a man, all he does is RUN!

The best course of action is to relax, be confident, love yourself, take care of YOURSELF and let men chase YOU.

Let Him Chase YOU is a dating advice book for women that discusses exactly why this process is necessary if you want a healthy long term relationship with a great guy.

makehimchaseyouLove and light, always!

Lynn Gilliard

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.