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First Comes LIKE: Dating Advice

First Comes LIKE: Dating Advice

“First comes love… Then comes marriage… Then comes Mary with a baby carriage.” Do you remember that little childhood song? We would sing it to tease someone who had a crush on a boy. We’d also sing it when playing patty cake to keep up […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Men Do Want to Know That You’re Interested

Men Do Want to Know That You’re Interested

A lot of women (myself included) believe that when you first meet a guy, playing hard to get is the right way to go. That may be true to a certain extent, but not to the point of indifference (not answering messages, acting as if […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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The Guy Seems Interested But Doesn’t Ask for Your Number… What’s Up with That?

The Guy Seems Interested But Doesn’t Ask for Your Number… What’s Up with That?

For a time, ever since my life transformation I’ve experienced a weird phenomenon with certain men.

The guy approaches me. He’s extremely interested, has a nice conversation with me, but then leaves without asking me for my information to connect again.

At first I think, “well damn, did my breath stink or something?” LOL But of course I just shake it off.

I finally realized what was happening. It had nothing to do with my looks or what I said.

It had everything to do with the confidence and determined attitude I exuded when talking to these particular guys. I was not the type of woman they were looking for.

You see, each of these guys were slime balls. Players (or wannabes). They were fishing.

They looked at me from afar, liked what they saw, and thought they’d try their luck at running game on me for a potential one night stand.

But when they stepped into my energy they became uncomfortable. They realized that I wasn’t a pushover and I wouldn’t be scammed into their beds that night. So they moved onto easier prey.

In the past, my desperate, needy and eager to please energy would have led the no-good guy to pursue me all night long, right up until I landed in his bed! They love women like that — those women are easy to conquer.

So this is a really good thing. My energy is finally up to a place where the slimey guys can’t stay in my presence for long.

When you’re “vibrating” at a high level of positive energy and have high self esteem, bad guys just can’t tango with you. They can’t fool you. It’s a scientific fact. They will run scared with their tail between their legs.

On the other hand, this also leaves you in a place where decent, wonderful men (gems) can be drawn to you in a most magnificent and perfect way. They ARE up for the challenge. You just have to open up your energy to receive the right type of guy in your life and then LET HIM CHASE YOU!

Love Lynn

 

 

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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A Man Should Not (and Cannot Truly) Complete You

A Man Should Not (and Cannot Truly) Complete You

As young girls and young women we’re taught by our parents and the media that having a man is a part of being a complete woman. It happens both subconsciously and blatantly: – “one day you’ll grow up, get married and have a big wedding” […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

Let Him Chase Me? But, Isn’t Persistence Key? Women Ask

In my books and blogs I advise women to let men chase you, but some women don’t quite get it. They’ve been taught that they have to go after the man that they want HARD and do whatever it takes to get him. They believe […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

A common question that many women have whether they are in a relationship or just dating is, why do men pull away?

At the beginning of the relationship or the first few dates, he seems so into you. He is going out of his way to make you happy and to please you.

But eventually, something changes…

Well there are a few reasons why men pull away and what you can do about it to protect your feelings and sanity:

1) Sex has happened, so you are no longer a conquest — he has conquered.
Do not have sex with a man until you have formed a REAL bond with him that goes far beyond physical attraction. That way, when sex does happen there’s still something that keeps the interest you have for each other alive.

2) He thinks that you are getting a little too attached, and he’s not sure if he wants to be your man.
Keep dating other guys since you’re not in a relationship. If he asks if you are dating other guys, tell him “Yes I am. Problem?” Watch how things start to change. (I discuss this in more detail in my dating guide Let Him Chase YOU).

3) Your low self-esteem and insecurity is bringing him down.
Energy is real. Guys can sense when you have low-self esteem and it brings a bad energy into your union that he wants to escape desperately. Have some confidence in yourself girl!

These are just a few reasons why men pull away. You might find yourself in one of them if you dig deep and tell the truth to yourself. Thankfully, the solutions are VERY simple, and they all start with you.

Love Lynn

 

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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Let Him Chase YOU

Let Him Chase YOU

So many women of today have been brainwashed to think that they have to chase after men in order to have one. But the truth is that when you chase after a man, all he does is RUN! The best course of action is to […]

Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book You Matter encourages women to know and understand their worth.                                                                
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