We are our souls. Our souls are the essence of who we REALLY are — not our physical bodies. So it doesn’t matter how tall, muscular and good looking a person is on the outside, if the soul is ugly he is ugly, period.
Do you know how you can tell what the true essence of a person is? By looking him squarely into his eyes.
I’m not talking about a brief glance. I’m talking about a long, deep soul searching gaze into the eyes.
When you open up and allow your intuition to talk to you, it will tell you all that you need to know about what’s going on with the person beyond the good looks and bright white smile.
I once had this happen on a first date. I met the guy at a bar. He seemed cool and polite at first, but when I looked him straight in the eyes I got an icy chill instantly. My intuition was screaming at me — RUN!!! And I did, no need to tell me twice!
Have you ever had this happen? Did you choose to listen or ignore your intuition about someone and how did it turn out?
Trust the Eyes, and Your Intuition
So the next time you are on a date with a guy, take a good look at his eyes to get the true story. The eyes will tell you if the person is shifty, mean, crazy, or maybe just a little troubled but yet a good person at heart. If he can’t even look you straight in the eye at all, that’s a problem.
Trust your intuition — her job is to keep you on the right path — and remember that the eyes are the gateway to the soul so use them to seem out answers about the guys that you’re dating.
Lynn Gilliard is the author of a popular relationship guide entitled Let Him Chase YOU. Her latest book Sing While You’re Single offers advice to women who want to remain single for the time being while still maintaining their belief in the power and possibility of love.